Sunday, February 14, 2016

Ten Techniques to Be Happier in 2016 (Part 1 of 10)

Technique #1: Unplug


Technology:  it’s everywhere.  Yes, it increases our productivity.  Yes it helps us to stay in constant contact with family and friends.  Yes it allows us to track the activities and whereabouts of our favorite celebrities from dawn to dusk.  And yes, in enables us to anonymously keep tabs on old high school crushes.  Plus, with an entire world of information at our fingertips, we all are now subject matter experts on every conceivable topic from making a perfect Apple Brown Betty to replacing the solenoid in a 1973 Buick Electra, or performing a DIY root canal. 

Make no mistake, however – technology is changing who we are.  Studies have shown that technology is rewiring our kids’ brains, organically intertwining their minds with the devices they use, and causing them to process information in an entirely different, more computer-like way.  My twelve year old, for example, can set up a home entertainment system faster than I can tie my shoes, and my sixteen year old becomes anxious when she’s without her phone for more than five minutes, as it has become the sole portal into her social existence.

The American Academy of Pediatrics blames overexposure to media as a leading contributing factor in aggressive behavior, obesity, poor school performance, sexual promiscuity, cyber bullying, and hemorrhoids (kidding).  And while visual media are fast replacing old fashioned textbooks in the classroom due to the greater ease in keeping instructional materials up to date, Psychology Today suggests the act of reading printed media tends to develop reflection, critical thinking, problem solving, and vocabulary better than the electronic counterparts. 

So in the new year, I challenge you to unplug.  Pick a day – even a half day to start – and shut off your electronics.  See how you feel.  Based on personal experience, at first you may feel out of touch, uninformed, alone, and desperate for a drink.  Then, ever so slowly, the quiet becomes cozy, almost comforting.  When nothing bad happens, you relax, coming to realize you’re not really missing out on anything important.  Your stress level goes down; your happiness quotient creeps up.  What do you have to lose (except maybe your hemorrhoids)?

 

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